ipc.. what does it means to me?

emmm..
i finished my paper for the subject 'interpersonal communication' ..
kinda boring subject as i went for the lectures .. tutorials.. never figure what does it means to me..

back to what i have studied for this paper..
i focus on intimacy stage in interpersonal communication.. and.. for sure it comes out in exam..
good .. good.. well .. not just the intimacy stage alone.. i could write down all the stages backwards..
but it's unnecessary here..

for what i could recall for the stage is mainly the anxieties in the intimacy stage.. why? well.. it's obvious that i have went through those anxieties "barrier" i presumed..

i don't think what i wrote in my answer sheet answers the question given by the examiner..

there's 3 anxiety in the intimacy stage 'security, fulfillment, excitement' -Devito

security anxiety is when you feel scare / insecure.. due to the fact that some day.. he / she will leave you.. for some reasons.. at some where along the journey towards mutual understanding? "mutual understanding - marriage, social bonding"
yes.. sickness and death could separate you with your life-partner.. are you scare of it?

second anxiety goes to fulfillment anxiety.. where you feel afraid.. of .. incapability to fulfill what your life-partner expected..

and the last anxiety.. the excitement anxiety .. which you might have smaller social-cycle than currently.. life-partner restricts your movement.. no more pub.. no more high-school reunion.. no more karaoke.. DoTA..? NO!NO!NO!

well.. for someone who's not ready for a more penetrate I.P. relationship like me..
i think about the anxieties over and over.. numerous times.. it might be time for you to think about it as well..